I think one primary way is to not be distant leaders themselves While certainly being respected and viewed as examples in the faith as leaders are told to be, it doesn't deflate your ability to be an example as a leader, to be real and to express to people that you also are a fellow brother in the faith and one who yourself struggles with sin, to share those things in the course of your own preaching, to make sure that that comes through so that as you are talking even about putting to death sin in sermons to give examples of how you've done that yourself. And this concept that pastors can't have close friends within the congregation I think we need to put that away in a permanent fashion and recognize that pastors do need to have close friends to whom they are accountable. This is one reason that churches with multiple elders are very important, that the one pastor system has really created something very popish and unrealistic that prevents that pastor from having relationships with the flock and with other godly men to whom he could be accountable. So having a plurality of elders is an immensely valuable thing for accountability to be seen and transparency to be part of that church's life from the top down, if you