How Do Elders Help a Church not Bite and Devour
Mar. 16, 2018
Our topic for this session is how elders can help a church not divide, bite and devour. How elders help the church not bite and devour. John 13:35 says (the disciple whom Jesus loved wrote this verse and says):
“By this, all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
People know that we are the people of God when we love one another. When this verse is spoken of, it's normally focused on the testimony of the church in the world, the implication being that if we don't love each other, it's a harm to our testimony of the grace of Christ and His power to transform His people. Of course, that's a right application, but there's something more fundamental here. When we're blatantly unloving (not in an isolated instance, but over a period of time, in an ongoing way) we are exposing ourselves as being either (1.) not really Christians (we said we were Christians, but we aren't really; we don't have the fundamental mark of a Christian; that is, love in our hearts) or (2.) grotesquely immature Christians. When we are unloving in an ongoing way (not just an eruption of immaturity, but when we're unloving over a period of time, in an ongoing way), we're either declaring that were not Christians, or we're exposing ourselves as being very immature Christians.
Now, how do elders fit in with this? Well, theoretically, elders are among the most mature Christians in a local church. They’re the men who had been identified as being ahead on the curve of having the Fruit of the Spirit in their lives. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace - no, stop too far - the Fruit of the Spirit is love. Period. Not that those other marks aren't important. But that is definitely a list with priority. Love is the overriding mark of a Christian. And when we don't have love (when we are blatantly unloving over a period of time in an ongoing way) we're saying something that is so concerning about the condition of our own souls.
Theoretically, elders are to be the most loving people in the church. If it's true that, theoretically, elders are to be among the most mature, then it must also be true that, at the same time, they’re among the most loving in the church. There is no such thing as the most mature, but not the most loving! Elders are to lead in love. And this is the exact opposite of bitin