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What does it mean to be a man in a society that appears to despise traditional masculinity? Robert Bosley addresses the prevailing societal views on masculinity, noting that there seems to be a disdain for men, particularly those who exhibit traditional male traits. He shares his personal journey of teaching his sons about the essence of manhood. He defines a man as one who uses his strength for God's glory, to protect others and to build culture. Bosley warns against the common pitfalls of overemphasizing certain aspects of masculinity, such as physical strength and aggression, while also acknowledging their part in the male identity. Bosley also critiques the cultural attempt to feminize men, arguing that men are not 'defective women'. He encourages us to affirm our sons in their God-given masculinity, emphasizing that strength - both physical and moral - is a gift from God intended for good. He encourages men to embrace their unique roles and abilities, reminding them that they are designed to be protectors and builders. 1 Corinthians 16:13 (NKJV): "Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong."

How can we raise our daughters to embrace their God-given roles in a society that promotes a different mindset? In this video, Robert Bosley discusses the importance of a well-ordered and organized home life, particularly for our daughters. He emphasizes the need to reject the modern mindset that pressures women into roles that God did not intend for them. Instead, he encourages us to raise our daughters to embrace their femininity and the roles God has called them to. According to Bosley, this is not a lesser calling. Rather, it is an opportunity for women to be queens and prophetesses in God's kingdom. It is not about becoming a slave or an object of desire, but about joyfully accepting and fulfilling the roles that God has assigned. This, he believes, is the key to maintaining order in the home, the church, and society at large. Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV): "Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it."

What is the role of discipleship in both family and church life? Robert Bosley highlights the critical responsibility of discipleship bestowed upon the family and the church. The family, where new life emerges, and the church, where new believers are taught and transformed, are natural settings for discipleship. However, Bosley observes that today's church often overlooks discipleship, treating it as optional or reducing it to a mere program or industry. Instead, he asserts that Scripture presents discipleship as an organic process, occurring naturally in daily life and interactions. Discipleship is not about ticking off boxes or following a rigid program; rather, it involves a comprehensive approach encompassing all aspects of life. It requires families to teach their children the ways of the Lord and churches to faithfully preach the word, administer the ordinances, and provide the means of grace. When families gather together in churches, they can encourage each other to love God, obey His commands, and serve others. Discipleship, therefore, is a dynamic process that fosters a deeper, more committed following of Jesus. Hebrews 10:24-25 (NKJV): 'And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.'

In the sermon on Psalm 92, Robert Bosley emphasizes the imagery of being planted in the house of the Lord, likening it to a tree planted in fertile soil, which signifies spiritual nourishment and growth for Christians. The psalm, a song for the Sabbath, highlights the importance of the Lord's day, where believers gather, listen to the Word of God, and partake in ordinances and means of grace. This setting provides the necessary nourishment for Christians to grow and remain faithful, despite external challenges.

How impactful is the practice of daily family worship in shaping the discipleship of children? Robert Bosley emphasizes the immense value of family worship in the realm of discipleship. He explains that the home is the primary setting for discipleship, especially for young children. The family, ideally, becomes a primary place where the gospel is regularly preached to children, with family worship serving as a powerful tool for accomplishing this. Bosley illustrates his own family's routine, highlighting the commitment to family worship twice daily—morning and evening—where Scripture reading, singing, and prayer become integral parts of their regular routine, reinforcing the importance of God's Word in their lives. It is important that children are consistently exposed to Scripture within the home environment. Bosley contrasts the limited time children spend in church gatherings, usually once a week for a relatively short duration, with the significant impact of daily immersion in God's Word through family worship. The continuous exposure to the Word of God on a daily basis, even if it's for a short duration, is emphasized as a vital element in the spiritual nurturing and growth of children. Psalm 119:105 (NKJV): "Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path."

What does it mean to be a follower of Jesus as a woman? Robert Bosley discusses the role of a woman as a follower of Jesus. He asserts that throughout history, the normative pattern for women has been to take up the mantle of a wife and a mother. This isn't to demean the value of those who remain single or aren't blessed with children, but rather to highlight the typical path that women have trodden for centuries. Bosley emphasizes that God's sovereignty oversees these aspects of life. He goes on to stress the impact of a woman's role in shaping society. The home, he states, is the foundation of all societies, and when a mother fulfills her duties and raises her daughters to follow in her footsteps, she contributes to maintaining the societal structure. Bosley suggests that the absence of this normative pattern is part of the reason for the societal chaos we currently witness. Proverbs 31:28 (NKJV): "Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her."

In his sermon, Robert Bosley emphasizes the need for pastors and church leaders to guide their congregations in living as faithful believers within a non-Christian society. He stresses that Christians must swim against the cultural tide and focus on honoring and glorifying God above societal acceptance. Pastors are encouraged to provide clear instruction on living according to the gospel and God's law, not only through one-on-one counseling but also through sermons and exhortations. Bosley advises believers to prioritize their relationship with Christ over concerns about societal judgment or acceptance, highlighting the importance of living differently from non-believers to uphold their faith.

In the sermon 'Occupy Till I Come,' Robert Bosley emphasizes the unchanging call for Christians to do God's work regardless of their circumstances. He stresses that Christians are to continue their mission of preaching the gospel, raising families, and making disciples, irrespective of whether they are under Christian or pagan governments. The sermon underscores the importance of being a light in society and spreading the gospel globally. Bosley highlights that God's command for all people to repent applies universally, in every nation. The notion of 'occupy till I come' is likened to Paul's advice to Timothy to preach in and out of season, meaning Christians should always be active in their faith. Christians are portrayed as ambassadors of Christ, tasked with spreading His Lordship and preparing the way for the promised reign of King Jesus over the kingdoms of the earth.

In the sermon titled 'Should we take up arms against the tyrants,' Robert Bosley explores the biblical perspective on rebellion against governmental authorities. He references Romans 13, which prohibits personal rebellion against governments but emphasizes that one need not comply with every unjust command of a tyrannical regime. Through biblical examples like Daniel's defiance of the king's orders and Paul's appeal to his Roman citizenship, Bosley illustrates the concept of civil disobedience within a framework of respecting governmental structures. However, when divine law conflicts with human law, the priority is to obey God, as demonstrated by Peter's stance. The sermon underscores the necessity to navigate existing systems while maintaining a commitment to God's commandments.

Have you been passive in your spiritual life and feel it's too late to change? Robert Bosley addresses this concern, reminding us that it's never too late to become intentional in our faith. He encourages us to put away idols and harmful habits and to use our past as a testimony to God's grace and faithfulness. Even if there are years of passivity, Bosley explains that God can change our hearts, leading us to be more active in worship and proactive in teaching His Word. He emphasizes that God's grace is sufficient to change our patterns and redeem even many lost years of idleness. Bosley stresses that being in a rut of passivity doesn't mean we have to stay there. God often calls his people to do uncomfortable things, but He equips us to do them. While it might be easier not to teach our children and lead our families in worship, God gives us the grace and ability to do so. We are called to trust in the Lord, rely on His strength, and take up the mission He has entrusted us with. It's never too late to become active in our faith. 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NKJV): "And He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.' Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."

Has the loss of family discipleship negatively impacted the church and its mission to make disciples? Robert Bosley notes a shift in the pattern of discipleship, especially in the United States, tracing back to the Industrial Revolution and the Great Awakenings. The cultural revolution that systematized schooling and church programs, replacing home-based discipleship, has failed the church. Despite having more discipleship resources than ever before, the church has been unsuccessful in producing true disciples. This is largely because the responsibility of discipleship has been lifted from fathers and placed on the so-called 'experts' in the church. The failure extends further as these assigned individuals, often unqualified, use readily available resources without truly understanding their roles as ministers of the gospel. The result is a glaring gap in the home and in the church, as the discipleship process has been reduced to a programmatic approach, losing its essence and effectiveness. Fathers need to reclaim their biblical roles as the spiritual leaders in their homes, discipling their children and leading them in the ways of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4 (NKJV): 'And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.'

In his sermon, Robert Bosley discusses the role of the church in a Christian's life, emphasizing the importance of community. He highlights that while God saves individuals, they are meant to be part of a community that extends beyond Sunday worship. Bosley argues that gathering with other believers on the Lord's day holds a special significance where God's Spirit is uniquely present. He advocates for regular interaction with fellow Christians throughout the week, not only in organized meetings but also in informal settings like coffee chats and dinners, to foster fellowship, friendship, and encouragement. The speaker stresses the need for mutual support, prayer, and sharing of personal spiritual experiences as part of being a body of believers. He believes that this ongoing community engagement helps Christians withstand the routine challenges of daily life, providing the necessary encouragement and spiritual refreshment.